'Gopher it', is the sweet saying husbands James and Matt say when they're encouraging each other to go for something.
‘We start off belonging to a family, and then more often than not, we look for friendship groups and romantic relationships to belong to.
‘Along with things in common, these relationships evolve until they are also based on shared history, and with this can come a shorthand for communicating.‘These words or expressions are usually borne of shared experiences and serve as a reminder of the good times we have shared together.’ It’s not just married couples that do this – friends and family will have their own secret languages, it’s just that married people are taking to the social media moment and joining in the conversation.
‘Exclusivity, and being part of something others are not, tends to make us feel special, and it’s no different when it comes to relationships,’ Caroline explains. ‘Whilst a relationship language can strengthen your bond, it’s worthwhile remembering that doing it in front of other people can be insensitive and may leave them feeling ostracized.’She continues: ‘The more time and experiences we have with someone, the more stories we create with them and as such, it’s only natural that some of these stories evolve into their own way of communicating and even their own words and expressions.
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