She said she felt really bad about hurting me the first time, then she dumped me again to go back to her lover
Dear Coleen I’m a man in my forties and had been married for six years when my wife walked out and moved in with another guy who was part of our friendship group. This was 18 months ago, and I was beyond devastated.
For a couple of months, things were good and I thought we’d be OK. She told me how bad she felt about hurting me and said she’d never do it again. I felt so connected to her and our sex life got a boost, too. My self-esteem is in the gutter and I don’t know how to move on. My friends and family literally despise her and are going to all sorts of lengths to make sure she stays away.Top news stories today Coleen says You don’t want to live your life walking on eggshells and feeling constantly insecure, waiting for your partner to leave again.
I promise you that one day you will look back on this period in your life and thank your lucky stars she left you because you will have made a better life and will no longer be feeling heartbroken and insecure or at the mercy of an unreliable partner.
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