My wife was asking her friend what she ought to do about me.
Dear Coleen I'm a married man in my 30s with two children aged three and five and I would like your opinion on whether I should speak to my wife about some things she said about me toFirst of all, I saw a WhatsApp exchange between my wife and her best friend, which she’d left open on a shared laptop.
My wife was joking that I was more interested in watching rom-coms on TV than actually being romantic and that our sex life was dull and unadventurous. She admitted she couldn’t be bothered with sex any more and then talked about who she fancied, including a couple of school dads and one of her colleagues.
Top news stories today Coleen says I do think you should talk to her and tell her what you overheard and how it made you feel. If you don’t, you’ll become more resentful and the already huge communication gap between you will get even bigger.Explain that you feel it’s time to have a truthful discussion about the state of your marriage and the future of the relationship. Show you mean business – arrange a babysitter for the sole purpose of talking about your future as a couple.
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