Here are 10 cardinal rules to follow when fighting with your significant other, so you don't blow up your relationship every time you're both mad:
My boyfriend and I are very much in love—but when we fight, we hit below the belt, and it's hard to recover from. How can we argue ... without ruining our relationship?Conflict in a relationship is inevitable. How this conflict is handled, however, often determines whether a relationship will last or is destined to go down in flames. All of us have said things we regret while in a fight. When we get hurt, angered, triggered, or scared, we are most likely to lash out.
Conflict is growth trying to happen. It brings problems to light so they can be processed. The conversations that result help you learn what is important to your partner. They gives you insight into your own stuff. Conflict teaches you how to anticipate and resolve future issues. It can release tension in the relationship and ultimately deepen the bond when you're able to manage it and resolve heart issues.is a crucial skill.
Interrupting will make the speaker frustrated and give them the impression that you are more interested in what you are saying than in listening to their perspective. In the heat of an argument, most people are not great listeners. Truly listening can give you great insight into your partner’s perspective and make them feel heard, which can go a long way toward resolving a disagreement.Know when it is time to abandon all hope of a productive conversation.
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