Dear Care and Feeding: She's a sweet woman, but I need to shut this down.
Now that I’m pregnant with our first child, she tries to have very personal conversations where we share all the gory details of our pregnancies with each other and has asked if she can be in the delivery room with us . Besides being a private person who doesn’t want to share all the details of my life with her, I do find it brings up some difficult emotions for me. I’ve asked my husband to talk to her about all this and emphasize that I don’t need that specific type of relationship with her.
First off, I agree your husband should talk to her about this since it’s his mom, but most likely it will require you to speak to her as well. Simply tell her that you love her, but also tell her how you want your relationship to be going forward. She may get hurt, but if she’s reasonable, she’ll realize that what you’re asking isn’t mean-spirited. You have every right to stand up for what you want in life, and this is no exception.
Last, but certainly not least, you should seek therapy if you haven’t already. I’m a big fan of mental health assistance, and it seems like it could really help you now and in the long run.When I was young, I had an affair with my boss. We fell in love, got married, and, 25 years later, are still happily together. When our affair began,
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