In this week's Lalalaletmeexplain column, Lala replies to a reader who found images of naked girls on her ex's phone and is now going through a bad break-up
In Lalalaletmeexplain 's hit column, readers ask for her expert advice on their own love, sex and relationship problems.
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It’s a tough one because I do think it’s wrong and unacceptable for your partner to sneak around looking through your personal things. There are many conversations in my phone that I wouldn’t want other people to see, and that isn’t always going to be something shady. I wouldn’t want my boyfriend to see my friends telling me their deepest thoughts and secrets, or my plans for surprising him on his birthday for example.
You may well have breached boundaries by looking but you found something. Technically you shouldn’t have done it, but if you hadn’t then you’d never have known that he had been screenshotting pictures of your best friend pole dancing. I’m unclear about whether the Snapchats were old. I don’t think you have a right to be mad about him storing old pictures, however, that’s a whole other debate about what to do with ex’s nudes.
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