'Love is abundant': US women opens up about 'kitchen table polyamory'
She says in her previous throuple, their partner cheated and would not let them bring another man into their relationship.
"Cheating occurred because he was dishonest and never shared anything around, even wanting to date outside of the relationship, let alone having an entire affair." Cheaters will always cheat; they like the secrecy, the power, the manipulation. No matter your dynamic, if someone enjoys the thrill of cheating, they will always cheat.""We meet people through our poly community and just in everyday life," said Rebecca."We are open to connection wherever it comes from.
"Karla was enjoying his company as a Meta when she realised she wanted more with him as well, and he also wanted to pursue Karla. So, they also started dating.This new throuple share two separate homes 20 miles apart, four dogs and are looking to continue to grow their polycule without limits on how many people could join them."We have continued conversations around our poly saturation and work together to know when we cannot take on any additional partnerships," says Rebecca.
"He was a narcissist, emotionally abusive and a misogynist. It wasn't aligned with my views on love, polyamory or embracing connections, wherever they may come from. "It was a hard journey as the dating scene sucks for everyone these days, but having very specific desires like polyamory and a kitchen table polyamory dynamic made it even harder to find partners."'My boyfriend lost his job because of lockdown and refuses to do odd jobs. Should I leave him?'
"Open communication and regular relationship check-ins let us know if we are in a place to pursue additional partnerships or if one of us is currently struggling," she adds. It feels like the most authentic relationship I have ever had. We do not have rules in our relationship; everyone has equal say and equal access.
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