I want to support my friend, but I think she made a crazy choice.
She has put herself out there. In due time, she will discover if she has deep enough pockets to go for her dream without additional financial support. For now, encourage her to work hard and make a plan.
She needs to figure out what it will take to manifest her dream. You can push her to pay attention to designing her way forward.It’s obvious to me what she needs to do, but she doesn’t listen well right now.My sister suggested that I use a bit of tough love, namely not waking her up in the morning. She said I need to let her be late for school a couple of times so that she can feel the repercussions of not being responsible. I haven’t been able to do that yet.
She is going to have to be able to get up on her own at some point. It’s better for it to happen now, while she is still on your watch. Take your sister’s advice. If possible, figure out her schedule so that you have a sense of how to help her prioritize her time. Let her know that you will no longer be waking her up. At night, remind her of her schedule for the next day. Then resist the temptation to go in and sound the alarm.
Hopefully your nighttime reminder will help her set internal and physical alarms to help her show up on time for her day. If not, let her experience the repercussions, even if that means a bad grade for a change.
South Africa Latest News, South Africa Headlines
Similar News:You can also read news stories similar to this one that we have collected from other news sources.
Bills’ Cole Beasley fined almost $100,000 for several COVID protocol violationsCole Beasley is racking up fines for violating the NFL’s COVID-19 protocols to the tune of almost $100,000, per ESPN’s Chris Mortensen.
Read more »
Opinion | I'm adopted. And even I don't think adoption is a replacement for abortion.Giving a baby up for adoption carries its own hardships, including for the child involved, and every woman should be able to decide whether she wants to take that on.
Read more »
Matrix 4 Star Jessica Henwick Almost Quit Acting Before ResurrectionsPrior to appearing in TheMatrixResurrections, Jessica Henwick almost considered quitting acting altogether: 'I was in a weird space and I wasn't really sure what I wanted to do. I think I was going through a quarter-life crisis.'
Read more »
Here’s How Kim Feels About Kanye Wanting Her Back After He Broke Up With His 22-Year-Old GirlfriendKim called it quits with the model after a month of dating.
Read more »
Here Are the Lyrics to Nat King Cole’s ‘The Christmas Song’The Nat King Cole Trio recorded “The Christmas Song (Merry Christmas to You)” back in 1946 and turned it into a Christmas classic, one year after it was written by Bob Well and Mel Torm…
Read more »
Bills’ Cole Beasley fined almost $100,000 for several COVID protocol violationsCole Beasley is racking up fines for violating the NFL’s COVID-19 protocols to the tune of almost $100,000, per ESPN’s Chris Mortensen.
Read more »