I don’t want to leave him destitute, but even his kids say that’s not my problem.
He’s an alcoholic and can be a bully when he’s drinking. His bad behavior comes and goes. I never know who he’ll be when he puts the can down.I have recently met and fallen in love with someone who says he wants to marry me. I still love my husband, but I’m also in love with this other person. I feel life is too short to stay with someone so unpredictable, and I no longer feel romantically attracted to my husband.
The other thing is, my husband has no real income. I support him financially, and I don’t want him to be destitute. We are seniors, but I still work, have an IRA and Social Security. He has only a small Social Security check to live on, which is not enough.DEAR INDECISIVE: If you decide to leave, it is important that you take some time to decompress before entering into another marriage.You haven’t known this new man very long. If the relationship is good, it will get even better with time. If, however, it turns out to be problematic, you will have avoided an emotionally and financially expensive mistake.: I am writing this letter for one of my students who learned about you through the book “Ramona Quimby, Age 8.
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