I’m trying to be understanding, but for someone to just cut you off and not even acknowledge you is awful.
-- PUSHED ASIDE IN THE SOUTHHere’s what to do. Back off! Since you understand grieving, you must know that no two people grieve exactly alike or on the same timetable. Your boyfriend has told you explicitly what he needs. If you care about him, give him space and stop personalizing this. His emotional needs must come before your own right now. Distract yourself by seeing friends or involving yourself in activities you can enjoy for the next month or so.
Anytime I see a client, I dress for the occasion. Since she seems to have no problem saying anything about my appearance, can I say something about the weight she has gained over the last couple of years? Since she says stuff like that to me, I think it’s only fair that I should be allowed to say something to her.Say anything you wish, but before you open your mouth, ask yourself whether it would be helpful or inflame the situation.
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