There’s nothing else to do but talk to him
Dear Lisi: My husband went away for a weekend with his friends. It’s an annual camping event where they bring their “fun” into the woods, sit and get silly for a few days. They usually just goof around and keep it light. This isn’t the time when they solve the world’s issues.
We don’t have the best relationship, but I’ve never cheated on him, and I don’t think he’s ever cheated on me. What do you think this is all about?Something has got under your husband’s skin – whether it’s something his friend told him, or a gut feeling, he’s in detective mode. I can’t figure out whether he’s checking to see if you’ve cheated on him, or whether or not you know that he’s cheated on you. But he’s definitely insecure at the moment.
If he does admit to transgressions, get third-party help to decide how you wish to move forward. If he doesn’t, but you suspect something, tell him so. But if his friend just wound him up, making him feel insecure about your relationship, tell him that you understand and that you’d love to spend some quality time with him to assuage those feelings.
Last week, I went to take out the trash and some patrons were smoking weed out back. I walked into a plume of smoke. They apologized, I dumped the trash and went back in. The next day the owner called me and asked if I had been smoking pot while working. I told him the story and he believes me.You have the owner on your side. Ask him what you should do. Keep doing your job to the best of your ability and try not to give the manager any fuel.
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