Dear Amy: I dated “C” for only a month in 2020.
At the top of the list is that he was immature, racist, and unscrupulous , along with a long laundry list of other terrible behavior.I only knew him for a month, so perhaps I’m being too judgmental?Helpful feedback might be: “You’re late too often. Your hygiene needs improvement. Your roommates are rude.”
Feedback in this context would only be a recitation of your own values. Self-improvement is not on the horizon for him — unless he expresses a desire for it, which he doesn’t seem to have done.I suggest that you continue not to respond, consider blocking him, and hope that he is messaging you on FB because he has lost your number.The person I am dating has been asking me how they can become debt-free.
Last week, when I was asked again, I just offered no advice and just listened to a recitation of the emotional issues surrounding their debt.— Not in Debt DavidCongratulations on achieving this enviable state. You’ve dedicated almost a decade to the long and slow climb out of debt, and you are absolutely justified in feeling very proud.
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