This service has always had a big impact on me, allowing me to basically unleash the sadness that seems to overtake me every Christmas.
Our pastor just announced that he will not conduct a “Blue Christmas” service this year. The reason? He has endured several personal losses of his own this year, and he quite honestly told the congregation that he doesn’t feel able to lead this service.– Am I BlueDear Blue: This situation is a reminder that clergy members are people, too. Sometimes, even they cannot rise above their own vulnerable humanity in order to serve others.
“Blue Christmas” services are also known as “Longest Night” services – and are usually held on or near the Winter Solstice. I have attended many of these services, designed for those who mourn, and I agree that they can be solemn, dignified, quiet and comforting. I have two suggestions: You might ask your clergy member to travel to another nearby church to attend this service as a group.No-nonsense advice for better living delivered to your inbox every morning. For a limited time, sign up for the Ask Amy newsletter and get the book “Ask Amy: Essential Wisdom from America’s Favorite Advice Columnist” for $5.Alternatively, you could find a service online, and work with your trustees to broadcast the service into your church’s sanctuary .
Dear Amy: “Stuck” wanted to go on a trip with her sister, but her husband didn’t want her to. A “girls’ trip” can often mean looking for guys. If that’s what the divorcee has in mind, the husband may have legitimate concerns about his wife going on such a trip.I wonder if the wife would feel comfortable with her husband going on a “boys’ trip” with a divorced relative or friend?Dear Wondering: A group of women hiking in the Scottish Highlands doesn’t sound like a “looking for guys” kind of trip. This husband was overreacting.
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