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I want to orgasm when I use a sex toy.” Because, yeah, one of their perks is that they can be really, really useful for getting yourself off. But that attitude could be adding unneeded pressure and taking some of the fun out of it., L.M.F.T., certified sex educator and the founder of The Institute for Sexuality and Intimacy in St. Louis, tells SELF. “You can use them to have some feel-good feelings and to enjoy the pleasure of sexual play without it being just a means to have to an orgasm.
Of course, if you’re going to switch up a toy’s intended use, make sure it’s safe to do so. Most notably, you wouldn’t want to use a dildo you typically use for vaginal penetration to try some4. You only use toys by yourself.. Some people worry that a toy is there as a “replacement” or to make up for some sort of performance inadequacy. But it doesn’t have to be related to anything like that.
Even if you have no trouble orgasming without a toy—or want to take the focus off of orgasms like we talked about—toys can still enhance something that’s already pleasurable. “Sex toys can be like delicious toppings [on] an already really good scoop of ice cream,” says Finn. “Yes, ice cream is delicious by itself, but today I want some with chocolate and a cherry on top just to change it up, to add a little bit of texture and flavor.
Speaking of condoms, oil-based lube makes latex prone to ripping, so you should only use water- or silicone-based lube if you decide to use a latex condom with your toy.Hey, it makes sense, you deserve the best. But you should know that sometimes a $20 toy can feel just as great as a $200 one. People tend to assume that the most expensive toys on the market are automatically the best, but according to Finn, that’s not necessarily true—especially if you’re not very experienced with sex toys yet.
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